Hello Fellow Good Dads,
I wanted to share a story about three very important men in my life who have shaped who I am as a father today: my Biological Dad, my “Step” Dad, and my Dad-In-Law.
My Biological Dad taught me that hard work is essential. He had a strict, almost military-like way of teaching me things but was hands-off the rest of the time. He believed that a young man needed to explore the world and learn from his experiences. Even though this liberty landed me in jail a couple of times, he always told me, “Well, at least I know you’re safe. See you when you get out.” As long as I went to school and got good grades, I had the freedom to come and go as I pleased. I can see this in how I parent my kids; teaching lessons then giving them freedom test the lessons just with a slightly shorter leash.
After my parents divorced, I moved around a lot and ended up living with my dad in high school. This was a turning point for me, and I believe it was the best decision I made. My dad prepared me for adulthood and maturity, and he’s always been there for me when I needed him.
My “Step” Dad, who I call Pops, was a huge support during my high school years. He acted as a go-between for my mom and me, helping us communicate better. Pops taught me the importance of building strong relationships and supported me in everything I wanted to do. He’s been my biggest cheerleader throughout my life, from joining the military to earning my degrees and becoming a father. He was there for every major event, always showing his support. I can totally see where I got the cheerleader aspect of fathering.
My Dad-In-Law showed me how to care for my family. Even though we had a rough start, I’ve learned so much from him by watching how he loves and supports his family. He does whatever is necessary, from lending money to washing dishes, and he does it quietly. His example has inspired me to be a better husband and father. At my wife and my 5-year vow renewal, I apologized for my childish ways and promised to treat my family as he treats his.
I wanted to take this moment to thank the men who have made me who I am.
Thank you!
🍻 Cheers to the dads in your life.
Gerald “Mr. BPOZ” Mayes – Connect With Me!
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