“The quicker you two can get on the same page, the easier it is to fight.” – Gerald, Episode 12: The Emotional Rollercoaster of Love: Building Awareness in Relationships
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! 🎙️ Join hosts Juliamarie Mayes and Gerald “Mr Bpoz” Mayes in this candid and heartwarming episode of the “Yes, We Fight” podcast. In this dynamic conversation, Julia and Gerald dive into the complexities of marriage, parenting, and the unique journey that has brought them to where they are today. Join Our Marriage Warrior Community – https://www.facebook.com/groups/yeswefight
Venturing Out and Family Update:
- The hosts talk about venturing out into the community, family dynamics, and recent experiences.
- Recap of a night out with friends and reflections on its rarity.
Different Backgrounds on Marriage:
- Julia and Gerald share their diverse backgrounds on marriage.
- Discussion on varying perspectives and moderation in approaching relationships.
Parenting Styles and Perspectives:
- Recognition of different parenting styles between Julia and Gerald.
- Emphasis on the strengths and challenges of parenting in a committed relationship.
Benefits of Long-Term Relationships:
- Highlighting the benefits of having a partner in raising children.
- Discussion on the challenges and rewards of parenthood.
Challenges of Gratitude:
- Julia reflects on occasional struggles with gratitude.
- Discussion on the difficulty of maintaining positivity and embracing bad days.
Parenting and the Baby’s Crying:
- Humorous conversation about parenting experiences, handling a crying baby, and division of responsibilities.
- Reflection on the challenges and joys of parenting.
Happiness in the Relationship:
- Discussion on current happiness in the relationship, challenges faced, and the importance of seeking therapy.
- Banter about therapy stereotypes and playful acknowledgment of the benefits of therapy.
Financial Stability in the Relationship:
- Reflection on the financial journey from the beginning of the relationship.
- Discussion on mutual financial support, handling day-to-day bill pay, and the importance of communication.
- Recognition of vision, planning, and execution in financial matters within the relationship.
Leadership, Ego, and Checking Ego:
- Gerald discusses leadership dynamics and emphasizes checking ego in a relationship.
- Julia shares her perspective on combining efforts and appreciating each other’s strengths.
Evolution of Marriage Benefits:
- Discussion on the evolution of marriage benefits over the long term.
- Julia’s perspective on the beauty of a long-term committed relationship and its impact on joy and life.
Benefits of Safe Communication:
- Emphasis on the importance of safety in communication within a relationship.
- Reflection on arguments, arguing for understanding, and creating boundaries for a healthier relationship.
- Gerald’s perspective on moving away from destructive arguments and prioritizing safety.
Closing Thoughts and Upcoming Events:
- Thanking the audience for participation and comments.
- Announcement of upcoming events, including Gerald’s birthday and their son turning 21.
- Commitment to continue the podcast and navigate scheduling challenges.
Key Points Discussed:
- The rarity and value of nights out with friends.
- Varying parenting styles and recognizing strengths and challenges.
- Reflections on the benefits and challenges of long-term relationships.
- The importance of therapy in navigating relationship challenges.
- Financial stability, mutual support, and communication in relationships.
- Dynamics of leadership, ego, and appreciating each other’s strengths.
- Evolution of marriage benefits and the beauty of long-term commitment.
- Emphasis on safety in communication, avoiding destructive arguments.
- Gratitude, positivity, and embracing challenges in relationships.
- Thankfulness for the podcast and commitment to future episodes.
Books Discussed:
- No specific books mentioned in the episode.
Products, Websites, and Influential People Mentioned:
- No specific products, websites, or influential people mentioned in the episode.
Call to Actions:
- Encouragement for the audience to share questions and engage for future episodes.
- Announcement of upcoming events, including Gerald’s birthday and son turning 21.
- Commitment to continue the podcast despite scheduling challenges.
The Podcast In 3 Quotes
“Allowing your partner to do what they’re good at is good for everyone.”
“If you’re willing to get through those hurdles together, it can really be a beautiful thing.”
“There are things that Julia and I have gone through in our relationships that have left scars. But the wounds did’nt kill us”
