“The quicker you two can get on the same page, the easier it is to fight.” – Gerald, Episode 12: The Emotional Rollercoaster of Love: Building Awareness in Relationships
👋🏽Hey Marriage Warriors🥊! Brief Summary: In this episode, the hosts candidly explore the dynamics of sex within a long-term relationship, discussing the changes over time, various experiences, and the importance of self-care. The conversation covers moments of humor, personal anecdotes, and reflections on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
Key Points Discussed:
- Changes in Sex Over Time:
- The hosts delve into how sex evolves with the addition of children and the progression of a long-term relationship.
- Acknowledgment of different moments, from quick encounters to more elaborate sessions.
- Variety in Sexual Experiences:
- Personal experiences shared, including humorous stories like a surprise gone wrong.
- Emphasis on the diverse nature of sexual encounters, ranging from spontaneous moments to planned sessions.
- Importance of Self-Care:
- Highlighting the significance of practicing self-care for a comfortable and fulfilling sex life.
- Stressing the need for understanding oneself, addressing personal blocks, and fostering authenticity in a relationship.
- Communication and Experimentation:
- Encouraging open communication about inhibitions and experimenting with different positions.
- Exploring the idea that sex can be fun and free-flowing, with laughter and relaxation playing a role.
- Relationship Trauma and Compassion:
- Discussing the impact of relationship trauma on sex life and the importance of compassion and understanding.
- Recognizing that overcoming shared trauma requires ongoing communication and sensitivity.
Books Discussed:
- Come As You Are by Emily Nagasaki
Products, Websites, and Influential People:
- No specific products, websites, or influential people were discussed in the dialogue.
Call to Actions:
- Encourage listeners to share their own experiences, especially humorous or unexpected moments during intimate encounters.
- Invite audience participation by asking for feedback on the discussed topics, including their views on self-care and evolving sexual dynamics in long-term relationships.
- Mention the upcoming live event at Mary Poses Cocina every Thursday at 7:00 PM in Las Vegas and invite local listeners to join.
The Podcast In 3 Quotes
“Every moment is different – from full nights to 15 seconds – it’s all part of the spectrum.”
“Issues in the bedroom often reflect issues within yourself; self-work is crucial.”
“Communication is essential; express all inhibitions and relax together.”
