Hello Fellow Good Dads,
There is a measure of greatness within each of you. Yet, one of life’s greatest challenges is translating that greatness from an idea into action. When we look at men who seem to have their greatness on full display—particularly in high-profile arenas like sports and film—we might be tempted to question this. It’s easy to think that their greatness is more tangible than ours.
But I believe true greatness isn’t about fame or public recognition; it’s about what we identify within ourselves that we want to be known by even after we have passed away. I remember listening to Curtis Martin, a Hall of Fame running back for the New York Jets, during his Hall of Fame induction ceremony. To my surprise, Curtis admitted that he didn’t even enjoy football. This revelation shocked me. How could one of the greatest running backs in NFL history not love the sport that so many of us dream of playing?
Curtis’s greatness didn’t lie in his football abilities, but in his desire to give back and have a lasting impact on his community in Pittsburgh where he was raised. On draft day, after being selected by Bill Parcells to play for the Patriots, Curtis confided to his family that he didn’t really want to play football. A man then said to him, “Have you ever considered that football could be the vehicle to achieve what you want to do for your community?” And that changed everything for Curtis.
So, as we reflect this Sunday, I ask you: What is your greatness, and what vehicles are you using to unlock it? If you fully commit, how could these vehicles help you realize your potential? Here are a few examples of my own greatness and the vehicles I’m using to pursue it:
My Greatness Is Giving: I am committed to being part of the solution in areas of my community that focus on supporting families.
My Greatness Is Connecting: I recognize that I can’t do this alone, so I strive to connect the right people who can create the solutions that families need.
My Greatness Is Inspiring: I aim to inspire other dads to lead by example and carry the torch for future generations, starting within their own homes.
The vehicle I’m using to channel my greatness is the Good Dads Club. I’ve decided to write the greatest book ever for fathers and bring you all along on this journey. Each week, I’ll share everything I’ve learned through four main channels: The Good Dads Blog, the Yes, We Fight Live Stream, the Good Dads Podcast, and the Book Club. If you or any family you know needs giving, connecting, or inspiring, please send them our way.
I’d much rather be remembered for being giving, connecting others, and inspiring than the owner of The Good Dads Club or Podcaster. But if this is the means then I happily take it on.
🍻 Cheers to you finding your greatness and the vehicle to pursue it!
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